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Microsoft have created the Xbox Gaming Safety Toolkit to empower caregivers to support kids and teens to game safely.
Check out our essential tips for parents and young people to ensure positive and safe online gaming experiences.
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Our online gaming toolkit contains a straightforward seven-step framework designed for parents to assist their tamariki who use devices for gaming. It also caters to general digital parenting needs. The downloadable toolkit is filled with practical, easy-to-understand tips aimed at facilitating discussions with your child about online safety, specifically in the context of online gaming.
Last Updated29/07/2024
The steps you take will vary based on your child’s age and maturity, for example younger children need more supervision, while teenagers may require less.
Playing your child’s game with them can help you understand it and discover why they enjoy it. While online games can be entertaining and educational, providing guidance is essential to ensure gaming doesn’t interfere with their schoolwork, sleep, or physical health.
If you or someone you know needs some advice about online gaming or another online issue you can contact Netsafe for advice and guidance. Our helpline is free, confidential and available 7 days a week.
Despite some negative perceptions, online gaming offers various benefits.
Games can help develop communication, teamwork, collaboration, strategy, and hand-eye coordination skills. Understanding what your child enjoys about gaming can help them feel valued and ensure safer gaming experiences.
Reasons your child may enjoy gaming include:
Continue discussing your child’s online activities and experiences. Regular conversations help mitigate issues if they arise. Additionally, consider the following:
Almost all games that connect to the internet have the option for peer-to-peer interaction, allowing gamers to interact with friends and strangers worldwide. Some games also feature private messaging, especially those allowing contact with other players.
Here's a summary of available parental controls on popular platforms:
Gaming can be enjoyable, but it’s essential to be cautious and to be aware of the potential risks.
Know how to report, block, or mute other players.
If someone’s behaviour upsets you, talk to a trusted adult.
Most of the gaming platforms will have Safety & Security Centres, where you can learn more about how to use the platform's tools to keep yourself safe, and how to report harmful behaviour.
For more advice on how to deal with upsetting content or behaviour when gaming, contact Netsafe.
It’s normal to feel competitive, but always respect other players. Winning isn’t everything.
If you or someone you know needs some advice about online gaming or another online issue you can contact Netsafe for advice and guidance. Our helpline is free, confidential and available 7 days a week.
Our toolkit is available in a range of languages - access them here.
Microsoft have created the Xbox Gaming Safety Toolkit to empower caregivers to support kids and teens to game safely.